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1  The Male Multiple Orgasm Forum / The Male Multiple Orgasm Main Board / Two Options for Moving Energy on: April 21, 2015, 08:42:17 AM
In my research, it seems like there are two options for moving energy:

1) Once aroused, squeezing the sphincter/PC region and imagine moving the energy up the spine and into the microcosmic orbit.
2) Focusing on another part of the body and move the energy to that location.
When would you use each of these methods? Would you use them in the same session and do they serve different purposes?

Thanks for any insight and help in this area ... I appreciate it.
2  The Male Multiple Orgasm Forum / The Male Multiple Orgasm Newbie Board / Re: Retrograde Ejaculation on: March 08, 2015, 09:47:40 PM
Thanks for the feedback ... I really appreciate it!
SDragon - just to follow-up, what would you suggest to be the best way to redirect the arousal and refocus the sexual energy elsewhere? I'm not well versed in chakras and energy movement and would appreciate any advice or suggestions you might be able to offer. Thanks again for the help ... I'm anxious to see if I can make "Option C" work. Smiley
3  The Male Multiple Orgasm Forum / The Male Multiple Orgasm Newbie Board / Retrograde Ejaculation on: February 27, 2015, 01:14:02 PM
Good afternoon ...

I've posted here before but find that after months of trying to master MMO, I'm still having problems. Hopefully the community can help!

My problem is with retrograde ejaculation.

I can masturbate and get close to the PONR and slow down, relax, and ease into an orgasm ... and come up "dry" as well if I do it right. I can sometimes even have 2-3 small orgasms ... but that's it. By that time I may still have an erection but enough retrograde has taken place that the drive is shot. :\  When I urinate into a mason jar (my wife is so understanding in letting me keep it there in the bathroom Smiley I can see the semen that's retrograded ... but interestingly enough, there's not a lot there. I must have held some back.

How do I avoid the retrograde ejaculation? Am I not a) squeezing tight enough to close the gates or b) getting to close to the PONR and hitting the inevitable?

In understanding male multiple orgasms, I came up with another analogy to go along with the other great ones that Keepitup Johnson has shared here and in his book. With spring training and baseball season here, I thought about a runner heading to second base. Reaching 2nd base would be the goal, the pinnacle of the experience, perhaps the PONR. You don't want to run past 2nd base lest you get tagged or thrown out. Instead, you want to "slide into" 2nd base. You can run fast towards the base, but the closer you get, the more you need to slow down unless you overshoot the bag. Does that make sense? Hopefully that helps if I'm accurate. Related to my question and scenario above, I'm afraid that if I stop too soon to avoid the PONR, then I never reach the bag and no orgasm takes place. Seems to me that it's a real fine line you walk ... either you don't have the orgasm or you go to far and you end up with an ejaculation, retrograde or otherwise.

Thanks for help. I really, really do want to master this and feel that I'm close. Just need to get past this retrograde issue.

Thanks!
4  The Male Multiple Orgasm Forum / The Male Multiple Orgasm Newbie Board / Re: My Situation | Suggestions? on: October 29, 2014, 11:10:22 AM
I thought I had it ... thought I was on the road to success ... but I'm not. I still can't seem to have a dry orgasm.

I bought the book "Love Satisfies" and I was impressed ... great book with tremendous information. I had read the Multi-Orgasmic Man first. It set the tone. And there were some more laymen terms and information presented in Love Satisfies that made sense, especially the part on energy work (although that's something that I still need to practice).

I feel as if I'm following the steps and doing everything right. No porn, no fast masturbation session, being present, enjoying the moment, etc. I can edge for as long as I want. I can hold it back. I can feel the energy move to other parts of the body. I can push myself right to the edge and yet be in control. When I finally do decide that I want to push the kayak over the falls so to speak and hit the point-of-no-return, I squeeze/suck-in the PC muscle to close the gates and feel the euphoria of an orgasm. Nothing ejaculates. But then ... I go flaccid and the shows over. I can't get to that elusive 2nd (or more) orgasm. Yes, it's a dry orgasm ... but unfortunately, it's also a retrograde ejaculation.

I check my urine afterwards (in a mason jar, about 10 minutes later) and sure enough, there's semen in the urine. Not a lot, but enough that it explains it. Therefore, what more can I do? What am I doing wrong? I am totally stumped and getting frustrated at something that should be enjoyable. Thoughts? Suggestions?
5  The Male Multiple Orgasm Forum / The Male Multiple Orgasm Newbie Board / Re: My Situation | Suggestions? on: October 09, 2014, 12:12:48 PM
Well ... I'm happy to report that I can now classify myself as a "multi-orgasmic-male." Hooray!  Cheesy

I had a few more "practice" sessions since my last post ... some with success, some without. But needless to say, I feel I'm on the right path. I think my key was to tighten the PC muscle just a little bit earlier than I was previously doing. This seemed to make the biggest difference. I also found out for myself (even though I've read it elsewhere) that bringing myself to the PONR too quickly (either through fantasies, etc.) makes it harder to hold back. It just comes in too hot and heavy and harder to control. Taking my time to get there really helps ... and overall, it's a much better, relaxing, enjoyable experience.

This morning, I was able to have 5 in a row with each one becoming a bit more powerful. I couldn't hold it any more on the 5th one and ejaculated. I have a long way to go with much more practice involved, but I feel I'm on the right path. Next up? Trying it with my loving and supportive partner ... who by the way, was there stroking me when I had my first multiple orgasm. How cool is that?

Thanks for the help and posts.
6  The Male Multiple Orgasm Forum / The Male Multiple Orgasm Newbie Board / Re: My Situation | Suggestions? on: October 05, 2014, 10:40:42 AM
Thank-you for your help and reply back. I do look forward to reading your book ... but need to wait for my next "book allowance."  Cool

I do feel like I'm in the present for the most part. There are times where it seems like it's taking "forever" to reach the point of orgasm and I'll use occasional fantasies to help get me there (ironically, they're of my wife, which is nice Smiley ... for some reason it seems of late that it's taking longer to get there. Maybe it's because I'm practicing every day. I do know that thinking about the mechanics of it all can sometimes take you out of the moment.

But here's what I experienced this morning: I had a practice session with all the normal routine. On an arousal scale of 1-10 (10 being the PONR), I worked myself up to an 8 or a 9 and rode that "edging" feeling for a few minutes. My strokes slowed down and it felt great. I knew that if I intensified the stroking in the slightest bit that it would put me over the edge. I was still in control and was waiting to decide if I was ready to give this another shot. As soon as I was, I put the clamps down and squeezed my PC muscle, intensified the stroking and within seconds I felt the dry orgasm - increased heart rate, small throbbings and pulsings, etc. But when it was done, I felt my penis become flaccid and everything dissipated ... again! I felt nothing as far as the feeling of the semen being released from the prostate and making its trek south. I thought that by squeezing before the fireworks began and I pushed the kayak over the waterfall that I would be in good shape ... but apparently not. So I urinated a few minutes later into my pee bottle ... checked in 30 minutes later and surprisingly, no semen this time. That's good news I suppose - no retrograde ejaculation - but at the same time, it just confuses me even more. Not sure what to try next.

Thoughts? Suggestions?
7  The Male Multiple Orgasm Forum / The Male Multiple Orgasm Newbie Board / Re: My Situation | Suggestions? on: October 02, 2014, 11:31:05 AM
UPDATE: I had a 20-minute "practice" session last night with similar results. Although the "dry orgasm" did seem to be a little stronger than previous ones. But again, I lost my erection when all was said and done. So I urinated into a bottle and let it sit for 30 minutes. That's when I noticed that there was a small amount of semen that collected towards the top ... not a lot, but some. I concluded that my timing must be off. I think I'm squeezing the PC muscle tight enough and shutting most of the flow down, but apparently not soon enough.

Therefore, I think I need to start clamping down just a little bit sooner. Not so much that I miss the orgasmic feelings, but enough to prevent any semen from getting into the mix of things and ending up in the urine.

Am I correct in my assessment and if so, any hints, tips, or suggestions on how to do so? Thanks!
8  The Male Multiple Orgasm Forum / The Male Multiple Orgasm Newbie Board / Re: My Situation | Suggestions? on: October 01, 2014, 04:04:24 PM
Thank-you SO much for the reply. When I've urinated after a self-cultivation session in the past, I assumed that the urine looked clear and fine. I'll try it in a cup though and let it set and see what the results are.

I'm curious though ... when using the PC muscle, you say not to "suck in with the PC muscles during orgasm." If I am having a retrograde orgasm, what do I need to change. Is it more of pushing "out" with the PC muscle rather than sucking in with it? Is my timing off?
9  The Male Multiple Orgasm Forum / The Male Multiple Orgasm Newbie Board / My Situation | Suggestions? on: September 30, 2014, 11:00:36 AM
Good morning. I was eager to find a forum for "male multiple orgasms" and hooray! I found what I was looking for. Great posts and great information. I'm hopeful that someone here can help me out.

BACKGROUND:
I've been happily married for over 20 years in a monogamous relationship. Our sex life during those 20 years has been outstanding. I never practiced "self-cultivation" (aka masturbation) during that time until this past year. Everything about my/our sex life has been terrific and I wanted to enhance it by being able to enjoy multiple orgasms, full-body orgasms and basically take it to the next level.
I've developed a strong PC muscle over the years and can stop my urine flow in mid-stream. I've become quite familiar with my arousal process/progress and know when the PONR is imminent. Since reading "The Multi-Orgasmic Man" by Mantak Chia a couple of weeks ago, I've been "practicing" daily to achieve my first multiple-orgasm/full-body orgasm.

PROBLEM:
While I can successfully "clamp down" and prevent an ejaculation ("dry orgasm") ... I go soft and flaccid afterward. The desire I feel is still there. I don't feel tired and sleepy and it all feels "good" but I can't get that 2nd or 3rd or more orgasm.

STEPS:
1. Each self-cultivation session lasts about 20 minutes.
2. I slowly build up the sexual energy by touching various parts of my body - not just my genital region.
3. Sometimes I use a masturbation sleeve, sometimes just my hand.
4. I edge a few times, bringing myself close to the PONR but by taking a deep breath, squeezing my PC muscle, etc. I avoid it and move on.
5. At this point, I feel unsatisfied. I have a LOT of sexual energy going on and would feel frustrated and unsatisfied if I were to walk away at this point.
6. So I continue and press closer ... till I finally cross over the PONR. I squeeze real tight, hold my breath, and feel the mild throbbings of an orgasm. NO ejaculation however. All feels good.
7. I continue to stroke ... being able to go as fast as I want now ... but to no avail. I become flaccid and I'm done in a matter of a few minutes.
8. No retrograde ejaculation has occurred either. No cloudy urine.

What am I doing wrong? What am I missing? I anxiously await to hear your suggestions and to answer any questions. Thank-you for allowing me to share.
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