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 on: January 07, 2018, 09:42:43 PM 
Started by FeeltheLove - Last post by KeepitupJohnson
You wrote: I understand all the concepts, but have trouble with the following:
(1) Moving energy out of genitals - while practicing slow breathing, gently contracting PC muscle, all of that helps, but when I stop at 9/10, arousal falls to 5/10, but very quickly (1 minute or so) goes back to 9/10 ... so I feel like it's not truly moving the energy very far if re-arousal happens so quickly. HELP!

I think you're succeeding with moving energy out of the penis. Lifting sexual energy out of your penis and up your spine doesn't mean your arousal level has to drop; it just means that you're experiencing more love than lust. Good! Loving more and lusting less doesn't lower your arousal level, it lowers your urge to ejaculate. Not lusting enables  men to have genital orgasms without ejaculating. Lusting makes us ejaculate. When you lift your sexual energy higher than lust (when sex is love) . . . then it becomes possible to orgasm without ejaculating. .

(2) My PC muscle is strong, so when I'm ~9.9/10, I squeeze it, and sometimes have a nice long dry orgasm, but feels like I'm keeping the semen from springing forth by force, and after arousal drops. If I stop at 9.7 or 9.8, I won't "drift into orgasm" in the words of venerable Keepitup J. AND THEN BLUE BALLS! Cry


You're doing great. I suggest playing around with holding a lighter (less strong) PC squeeze for a longer time frame. You could hold a light PC squeeze while you're stroking. You could hold this light PC squeeze throughout an entire orgasm. Try using a PC squeeze that's strong enough to hold back ejaculation yet light enough to let orgasms' spasms go through. Keep asking questions! Keep practicing!  And keep asking questions. You're doing great.  
Peace and love, Keepitup Johnson

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 on: December 30, 2017, 03:26:16 PM 
Started by thisisreal - Last post by Vitality4845
Yea i had the same thing happen to me where i had a dry O and holly shit, i felt the wave going up my body. Wanted to do it again but i felt like i was already about to cum so i stopped. Had a few minor ones but couldnt replicate what i did. I know that what really helped to accomplish the first one was meditation before actually practicing. I found that it keep you calm about wether your about to cum which are the thoughts that probably push you over the edge every time. But can i ask how you directed the energy, ive been trying to replicate what i did  but i feel like i might be sending energy where it cant go. I feel like ive gotten really good at controling the pc muscle enough to reach that dry O but the energy dosnt go anywhere. Ive been trying to relax it into my tailbone and up my spine but it feels like it gets stuck there. This struggle also brought up another question. Are you suppose to send the energy up the tailbone or into the prostate. We are recommended aneros ( which stimulates the prostate ) in order to rewire our brains.....so should we focus on sending it there or like so many books say which is up the spine, or do they just mean prostate cause its in the same direction anyway. Sorry for so many questions just trying to be detailed.   

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 on: December 20, 2017, 11:46:20 AM 
Started by FeeltheLove - Last post by FeeltheLove
Hi all! I've read (1) Keepitup Johnson's excellent book and (2) Male Multiple Orgasm by Somraj Pokras, I like them both.

I understand all the concepts, but have trouble with the following:
(1) Moving energy out of genitals - while practicing slow breathing, gently contracting PC muscle, all of that helps, but when I stop at 9/10, arousal falls to 5/10, but very quickly (1 minute or so) goes back to 9/10 ... so I feel like it's not truly moving the energy very far if re-arousal happens so quickly. HELP!

(2) My PC muscle is strong, so when I'm ~9.9/10, I squeeze it, and sometimes have a nice long dry orgasm, but feels like I'm keeping the semen from springing forth by force, and after arousal drops. If I stop at 9.7 or 9.8, I won't "drift into orgasm" in the words of venerable Keepitup J. AND THEN BLUE BALLS! Cry

Does anyone have any suggestions or tips? I am open to trying any exercises even if they take a long time (eg meditation and such), it's a marathon and not a sprint!


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 on: December 18, 2017, 08:26:55 AM 
Started by thisisreal - Last post by thisisreal
Thanks. The more time passes, the more you learn.

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 on: December 18, 2017, 08:26:28 AM 
Started by thisisreal - Last post by thisisreal
Had the day off today and decided to get into some Dry orgasms.

So good, it's hard to get anything done around here and I keep finding myself back on the couch in a blissed out state enjoying orgasms of varying intensity.

A couple of things that I've noticed are that I need to be horny and full of sexual energy for this to work and I can get orgasms without going too close to the PONR.

It's quite incredible. I haven't ejaculated in 2 and a bit weeks so felt ready today.

So I got down to it earlier and masturbated until I started to feel the first orgasmic kind of feelings.

Usually it would take a bit more work before approaching the PONR but I just stopped, relaxed with my penis in hand.

Sure enough, after a few seconds, my heart started to speed up, my penis became progressively harder, pulsating and I started to feel a rush of euphoria.

From there, I just let it build and subside for several minutes. At times it was almost unbearably intense where I thought my head might explode and my vision went foggy.

Other times it was just a subtle, gentle feeling throughout my body and a pulsating penis.

All of it incredible and just typing this out is bringing me close to having another orgasm.

Feels like heaven.

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 on: November 01, 2017, 08:42:53 PM 
Started by thisisreal - Last post by SDragon
My opinion would be everyone's body/mind/blockages are different.  Play with it, treat it like a game.  Win some, lose some, and keep playing.  The more you don't take it too seriously, the closer you'll get.

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 on: November 01, 2017, 08:40:14 PM 
Started by Vitality4845 - Last post by SDragon
Only love is important. Love connects us all. Love is at the center of the universe. I mention more about having dry orgasms as a result of love energy.

That pretty much says it all.  I can say that I wouldn't have understood it a year ago, but do now. 

Like many of you, I've been practicing and having hit or miss experiences, mostly because like many people, I've always used porn as the way to test my 'competency'.  I've had success in letting the energy travel up the spine at times but also sometimes lose control and get retrograde or slight ejaculation.  The energetic loss is noticeable and there's generally a slight energy of frustration as well.   

Long story short, I've since met a girl that I can delve the depths of orgasmic energy with without even having to be in the same room.  When I masturbate with her on the astral plane, as KeepitupJohnson says, you truly do have more dry orgasms and the resulting energy feels like you're barely touching the surface of this huge volcano.  It feels like you can just keep on expanding with it.

Best of luck to everyone.

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 on: October 30, 2017, 09:21:11 AM 
Started by thisisreal - Last post by thisisreal
Hey guys,

I discovered this topic about 2 years ago and got Keepitup's book around that time.

I periodically gave up and went back.

After a period of 2 weeks abstinence from orgasm, I had the notion to try the love satisfies method and experienced my first breakthrough.

Without a doubt, experienced fairly strong dry orgasm.

My heart was racing, I couldn't believe what was happening.

Since then, i got carried away (that night) and ejaculated and did that again on saturday when I wasn't getting the same feeling as the night before.

But, I've had a session on Sunday and 2 sessions today with some mild orgasmic rushes and feelings of euphoria and haven't felt the need to ejaculate.

Just wondering if anyone can offer any tips on ramping up the intensity. Is it just a case of keeping at it?

My biggest question right now is this:

How long do you wait between stopping at the PONR and starting again?

I realise that it's in that space that the magic happens, so how long do you wait? What makes you decide to start up again? How long after you've stopped can the orgasms continue to come?

Sorry if this is a lot of questions but I'm eager to learn.

Thanks Keep it up, and to everyone else who posted here!

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 on: October 16, 2017, 11:44:37 AM 
Started by movin it - Last post by R1969
Maybe try less stimulation around the frenulum (just below the tip of the penis) and more stimulation around the perineum (behind the testicles).  Similarly, try making your testicles / perineum the focus of your attention rather than the penis.  You can also experiment with varying the speed, i.e., slow down as you approach PONR.  And, it goes with saying, no porn & no fantasies.

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 on: October 09, 2017, 10:01:34 AM 
Started by multiplelove - Last post by R1969
Here is a visualization I have been experimenting with.  In the body-scan meditation, there is a practice where you "breathe in" to different parts of your body with your awareness focused:  your toes, your abdomen, your jaw, etc.  There is also a practice where you sweep the breath and awareness from the crown of the head to the tips of the toes, and back.  In this second practice, I feel something similar to amygdala clicking re the crown of the head.  So, I have combined this sweep of breath and awareness, toe to crown, with breathing into the perineum, along with gentle manual stimulation of the perineum and frenulum.  Then I visualize-project that my whole body is my penis, with the perineum at my feet and the frenulum somewhere between my forehead and the crown of the head.  As I stroke (gently) I do the sweep of the breath-awareness from toes to crown, in tandem, and that sweep of breath-awareness becomes a stimulation of the projected penis-body.  So essentially I am gently masturbating my entire body.  This sounds a little weird, but it is quite pleasurable.         

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