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 11 
 on: July 20, 2017, 12:31:26 AM 
Started by brickbat - Last post by Vitality4845
Hey hows it going man, I have a few questions about the Aneros , people talk about it in the forum and what im seeing is that it is a device that stimulates the prostate in way that you build awareness to its pulses. Is this the key to achieving drying O? what are the benefits of it? How did you incorporate this into your practice? Sorry  im eager for answer that would boost my progress cause ive been trying for months and have only achieved retrograde ejaculations

 12 
 on: July 12, 2017, 02:32:00 AM 
Started by transfigured - Last post by Vitality4845
I cannot agree more, people should realize that going at this the wrong way can leave you weaker and feeble. Take it from someone who was so determined to reach mmo that i practiced three times  a day for weeks and months. It does take a toll if you dont carefully consider how much you should retain before you exhaust yourself enough to feel fifty. People practice closing the gate on their sperm but forget to open the one that leads inside you. My  gate was a strong gate because i was working my pc muscles for months and was able to hold a kegel for 45 min straight. No joke i practice on the subway twice a day because what else do i do on my way to school. But even with strong pc muscle you will only ever reach retrograde ejacualtion. Thats were semen gets into your bladder instead of your blood stream. Great ways to open that upward channel are yoga, mediation, and other thing that relax and focus you. One of the things i do is masterbation mediation, thats where you relax and practice breathing while you edge. Much success on this for sure!! I feel greater control the more i do it. But it still takes time. Be patient cause building anticipation will build a wall between you and what you want. Enjoy yourself and mess around and explore. FYI you will be getting really close to cumming and you will waste your seed but dont. Try this! Its called the million dollar point, but I think the title is a little misleading. I dont consider it a point because you are working on a patch more than a point. Poking yourself in the area that you think will stop your semen from coming out will not be so easy. Instead form the triangle finger shape and dont poke but lay the fingers in the center between the ass hole and the balls and while your are about to ejaculate, press down and back. Use this technique to keep from going feeble,  for all of your informations, i have yet to achieve MMO because i am just realizing all of this. I leave it to KeepitupJohnson to fill in any blanks or misguidedness in my advise.
As the great Charlie Chaplin once said" WE THINK TOO MUCH AND FEEL TO LITTLE".

 13 
 on: July 12, 2017, 02:25:54 AM 
Started by transfigured - Last post by Vitality4845
I cannot agree more, people should realize that going at this the wrong way can leave you weaker and feeble. Take it from someone who was so determined to reach mmo that i practiced three times  a day for weeks and months. It does take a toll if you dont carefully consider how much you should retain before you exhaust yourself enough to feel fifty. People practice closing the gate on their sperm but forget to open the one that leads inside you. My  gate was a strong gate because i was working my pc muscles for months and was able to hold a kegel for 45 min straight. No joke i practice on the subway twice a day because what else do i do on my way to school. But even with strong pc muscle you will only ever reach retrograde ejacualtion. Thats were semen gets into your bladder instead of your blood stream. Great ways to open that upward channel are yoga, mediation, and other thing that relax and focus you. One of the things i do is masterbation mediation, thats where you relax and practice breathing while you edge. Much success on this for sure!! I feel greater control the more i do it. But it still takes time. Be patient cause building anticipation will build a wall between you and what you want. Enjoy yourself and mess around and explore. FYI you will be getting really close to cumming and you will waste your seed but dont. Try this! Its called the million dollar point, but I think the title is a little misleading. I dont consider it a point because you are working on a patch more than a point. Poking yourself in the area that you think will stop your semen from coming out will not be so easy. Instead form the triangle finger shape and dont poke but lay the fingers in the center between the ass hole and the balls and while your are about to ejaculate, press down and back. Use this technique to keep from going feeble,  for all of your informations, i have yet to achieve MMO because i am just realizing all of this. I leave it to KeepitupJohnson to fill in any blanks or misguidedness in my advise.

 14 
 on: July 11, 2017, 10:22:26 AM 
Started by transfigured - Last post by transfigured
Hi all,

Been a longtime lurker on this forum, but finally decided to create an account. Was supposed to make a new topic some time ago on sex toys as a tool towards male multiples, and today there is something way more interesting on my mind. Now bear in mind that I am not yet consistently successful in my MMO practice, and am not trying to sound like an authority figure, or "a knower". Just some food for thought...

I'm currently 27 years old. During the last few years I've been aiming towards male multiple orgasms with varying results. I got from very fast premature ejaculator to slightly successful edger (who suffered from intense prostate pain after), to someone who actually started to recognize all the individual muscles that make up the pelvic floor, to someone who started to feel tingles around the buttocks and legs, and eventually to a completely non-orgasmic male. The road has been incredibly rough at times, with my sexual self esteem going up and down along with the rest of my wellbeing. What I've noticed during the past month or so is that mental issues pay a huge role in how our sexuality functions. I first got this idea from Keepitup Johnson's book "Love Satisfies", in which he compares a human psyche to a house: a healthy human psyche is like a clean house, that smells of good food and plants, while an unhealthy psyche is like a messed up apartment with a leaky ceiling.

All of this might sound self-evident, but it's not really talked about much. Most people, even on this forum, are constantly talking about techniques to get to the big-O, but there's more to it. If you're a neurotic individual, whose life is a constant emotional struggle, then dry orgasms simply aren't attainable (at least in my mind) through a simple technique. When I started out my path, I didn't even know what being relaxed means. My premature ejaculation was a symptom of my body being in a constant fight or flight state, so naturally the tension alone would make me ejaculate instantly.

In many sites it is mentioned how practicing "loving kindness" is one of the best ways to attain multiple orgasms, but they often don't mention that you can't just take a shortcut towards that. Being raised as a man who always had to have that loving, kind attitude towards others, I ended up bottling up my rage in the process, thus becoming extremely anxious. Sometimes the path towards feeling balanced is through emotions that we are taught are "evil". During the last month I've fantasized about burning down my childhood home, taking part in street fights, and overall being as violent and selfish as I possibly could. And I've only now realized that feeling these things is FINE. In fact, when we don't allow ourselves to feel emotions deemed as bad, we suffocate ourselves so much it becomes impossible to feel the positive feelings, such as pleasure.

So my point here is: Don't just try to attain MMO's through a technique. Don't view sex as something isolated from the rest of your life. Try to see your situation as a whole, what you need right now, what you're really afraid of doing but you know you should really be doing. See a therapist, a healer, a tantric, anyone you find helpful. Tell your problems only to those people who are willing to help, and stay away from people who try to limit and suffocate you. Being yourself, 100% honest, is a surest way to learn multiple dry orgasms.

 15 
 on: July 10, 2017, 11:23:48 PM 
Started by Mayx - Last post by Mayx
So how do I not have a retrograde orgasm?

 16 
 on: July 10, 2017, 06:16:45 PM 
Started by Vitality4845 - Last post by KeepitupJohnson
Beautiful questions,  and beautiful, and correct lava/ fire analogy! I'm going to get around to answering your questions really soon. I have one question for you. I'm curious, have you read part 2 of Love Satisfies?
Peace and love, Keepitup

 17 
 on: July 10, 2017, 12:56:07 AM 
Started by Mayx - Last post by Vitality4845
What you are experiencing is a retrograde ejaculation. That means that the semen in getting emptied into the bladder , i got to that point but and i dont think its the dry orgasm everyone is talking about. True you still maintain some of your libido but you still lose your boner, i can cum three times but the boner still dies slowly and orgasms get weaker. You will know for sure its retrograde if you actually inspect your urine right after. It will be cloudy and you can see the sperm in it. 

 18 
 on: July 09, 2017, 03:51:53 PM 
Started by Mayx - Last post by Mayx
Hi,

I'm new to this site because I've been fiddling around with trying to become multiorgasmic for awhile without much success. At first I just tried masturbating and when I tipped over I clenched my PC, but I still ejaculated nonetheless. Then I found out that if I started chanting binary numbers while clenching my PC, I reduce my ejaculant considerably. Now days I can practically have non-ejaculatory orgasms (only a very small drop of semen leaks out). However, I still get soft immediately after having one of these. I notice, however, that even though I cannot maintain my erection immediately afterwards, I do still retain a bit of my libido (although somewhat diminished) and can orgasm again shortly afterwards. However, by the second or third time I am unable to keep up.

So what am I doing wrong? I thought that not ejaculating was the key to MMOs, but apparently not.

Thanks,
Mayx

 19 
 on: July 07, 2017, 02:22:56 AM 
Started by Vitality4845 - Last post by Vitality4845
I have been struggling still lol , i am trying to turn lust into love but i still end up ejaculating. Which bring me to the question, how do you ejaculate with love.  Maybe the problem with most guys and the reason they may take years to achieve this is that they do not orgasm with love. I mean i look up porn and my dick gets rock hard , but when i think about love and being in love and feeling love my dick is soft with no hope of getting up. I try jerking of to love but like that crazy confusing cause love just doesn't turn me on cause its love its no like the average guy gets of his laptop full of loving pictures and says  " damn i loved so hard" I try it with my girlfriend who i care more about than anything and it just doesn't happen that way.

Can you also shed some light on why, from the research ive made on the subject, why is it that people that do yoga have greater success in this then most, i mean i saw a video about this one guy who supposedly took ten years to get to male multiple orgasms(FYI i would hate to be that guy) and there was another guy who only took 3 months to achieve success in this. 

My theory is that if you have been jerking of to porn since you hit puberty then your brain is completely wired for lust and switching it to love by the time your 30 is just crazy because love may even feel completely contradictory.

I keep seeing from my research as well that this is like teaching you how to hold down a sneeze or keeping your eyes from blinking when you get hit in the face, an overriding of a reflex programmed in your brain. This is something that i feel like you can build on so is edging the way to do it? Should i try my hardest to keep my muscles down here from clenching up and causing to much pressure.

If there like a daily routine with check list of goals  that you recommend cause i feel like im just fishing in the dark sometime. Its kinda hard to really tell if im making progress, would just practicing edging eventually get me to my goal?

I also have another theory that may help me get a perspective on this but i could use some verification. So here its is, lust is lava and love is fire. Lava is hot and by the laws of physics,  will never flow up. Fire is light so it  will rise and spread. It may be a good analogy but how to turn lava to fire is such a mystery. My billion dollar question is how do you make your body flammable???   

 20 
 on: July 06, 2017, 10:56:27 AM 
Started by Vitality4845 - Last post by KeepitupJohnson
With more sperm = more energy in your genitals. Now, you can work on moving energy out of your penis (up your spine) when you're about to orgasm vs.
having to work on moving energy into your penis to orgasm.

It's been two weeks. How's it going?

Peace and love, Keepitup Johnson
Please feel free to ask questions.

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