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 21 
 on: July 10, 2017, 06:16:45 PM 
Started by Vitality4845 - Last post by KeepitupJohnson
Beautiful questions,  and beautiful, and correct lava/ fire analogy! I'm going to get around to answering your questions really soon. I have one question for you. I'm curious, have you read part 2 of Love Satisfies?
Peace and love, Keepitup

 22 
 on: July 10, 2017, 12:56:07 AM 
Started by Mayx - Last post by Vitality4845
What you are experiencing is a retrograde ejaculation. That means that the semen in getting emptied into the bladder , i got to that point but and i dont think its the dry orgasm everyone is talking about. True you still maintain some of your libido but you still lose your boner, i can cum three times but the boner still dies slowly and orgasms get weaker. You will know for sure its retrograde if you actually inspect your urine right after. It will be cloudy and you can see the sperm in it. 

 23 
 on: July 09, 2017, 03:51:53 PM 
Started by Mayx - Last post by Mayx
Hi,

I'm new to this site because I've been fiddling around with trying to become multiorgasmic for awhile without much success. At first I just tried masturbating and when I tipped over I clenched my PC, but I still ejaculated nonetheless. Then I found out that if I started chanting binary numbers while clenching my PC, I reduce my ejaculant considerably. Now days I can practically have non-ejaculatory orgasms (only a very small drop of semen leaks out). However, I still get soft immediately after having one of these. I notice, however, that even though I cannot maintain my erection immediately afterwards, I do still retain a bit of my libido (although somewhat diminished) and can orgasm again shortly afterwards. However, by the second or third time I am unable to keep up.

So what am I doing wrong? I thought that not ejaculating was the key to MMOs, but apparently not.

Thanks,
Mayx

 24 
 on: July 07, 2017, 02:22:56 AM 
Started by Vitality4845 - Last post by Vitality4845
I have been struggling still lol , i am trying to turn lust into love but i still end up ejaculating. Which bring me to the question, how do you ejaculate with love.  Maybe the problem with most guys and the reason they may take years to achieve this is that they do not orgasm with love. I mean i look up porn and my dick gets rock hard , but when i think about love and being in love and feeling love my dick is soft with no hope of getting up. I try jerking of to love but like that crazy confusing cause love just doesn't turn me on cause its love its no like the average guy gets of his laptop full of loving pictures and says  " damn i loved so hard" I try it with my girlfriend who i care more about than anything and it just doesn't happen that way.

Can you also shed some light on why, from the research ive made on the subject, why is it that people that do yoga have greater success in this then most, i mean i saw a video about this one guy who supposedly took ten years to get to male multiple orgasms(FYI i would hate to be that guy) and there was another guy who only took 3 months to achieve success in this. 

My theory is that if you have been jerking of to porn since you hit puberty then your brain is completely wired for lust and switching it to love by the time your 30 is just crazy because love may even feel completely contradictory.

I keep seeing from my research as well that this is like teaching you how to hold down a sneeze or keeping your eyes from blinking when you get hit in the face, an overriding of a reflex programmed in your brain. This is something that i feel like you can build on so is edging the way to do it? Should i try my hardest to keep my muscles down here from clenching up and causing to much pressure.

If there like a daily routine with check list of goals  that you recommend cause i feel like im just fishing in the dark sometime. Its kinda hard to really tell if im making progress, would just practicing edging eventually get me to my goal?

I also have another theory that may help me get a perspective on this but i could use some verification. So here its is, lust is lava and love is fire. Lava is hot and by the laws of physics,  will never flow up. Fire is light so it  will rise and spread. It may be a good analogy but how to turn lava to fire is such a mystery. My billion dollar question is how do you make your body flammable???   

 25 
 on: July 06, 2017, 10:56:27 AM 
Started by Vitality4845 - Last post by KeepitupJohnson
With more sperm = more energy in your genitals. Now, you can work on moving energy out of your penis (up your spine) when you're about to orgasm vs.
having to work on moving energy into your penis to orgasm.

It's been two weeks. How's it going?

Peace and love, Keepitup Johnson
Please feel free to ask questions.

 26 
 on: June 30, 2017, 09:02:24 AM 
Started by Vitality4845 - Last post by KeepitupJohnson
Dear Vitality,

After reading and re-reading your posts, I can see that you’re already achieving success.
You are taking a few days off and that will help your body increase its energy.  

You asked how does more sperm on board help dry orgasms?

A man with little sperm on board focuses on visual stimulation combined with fast, physical stimulation to stay hard and orgasm. A man with less sperm on board devotes more of his attention to staying hard – using porn/lust to bring excitement to remember his member.
Orgasms (wet or dry) are cyclic spasms of tension/release. Having more sperm on board increases sexual tension. Powerful sexual tension leads to powerful sexual releases which take the form of powerful, dry, orgasmic spasms. Bigger energy inside the body bounces around creating bigger orgasms.

Your questions are about holding in sperm while orgasming.  I'd like to address each of your questions, but for a better explanation, I suggest you re-read chapters 9 of Love Satisfies. {Love Satisfies offers a better explanation - although I spend a few days carefully writing an understandable explanation to each question I respond to here, I spend a few years on each book I write, carefully crafting an easy to understand explanation. The answers to all of your questions are already in Love Satisfies, chapter 9, and the first paragraph in Chapter 19 is true!

When you re-read a book, you not only see more in the book than you did before; but you also see more in you than there was before.

 “We eat with our eyes first.” -  Master Chef.
“Pay attention to what you eat.”  - Mister Johnson.

Porn is fast food for boners. The fast food industry seems to care more about money than our health and well being. Animals are fed pharmaceuticals and hormones . . . the food looks good, but in the long run, the food makes us sick.
The porn industry seems to care more about money than men’s sexual health and well being. The sex looks good, but in the long run, porn makes us sick. The actors are paid, a disturbingly high percentage of them commit suicide, many of their relationships don't work out or last.

Why do nurses give porn to sperm donors at the hospital/medical clinic? Because if you want to ejaculate, there’s nothing better than porn.  

Men ask, “But how can I get hard without porn?”
This is where having more sperm on board comes in handy for having dry orgasms. When a man doesn’t ejaculate for a week or more, his energy increases. He can get hard with the softest touch. Now he can focus on THE amazing feelings of LOVE.

The title of your post in this forum is “What am I missing?”
I think the only thing you are missing is the use of love instead of lust to generate your sexual energy. Often overlooked, there is a spiritual component to nonejaculatory orgasms – lifting your energy up instead inside of your body instead of having it flow down and out through your penis. Part 2 of Love Satisfies explains it better.  

Last month, I was alone inside of the King’s Chamber inside of The Great (Cheops) Pyramid in Giza, near Cairo, Egypt. It’s a really cool, big room in the middle of the Great Pyramid. The room has stone walls and a stone floor, and it’s totally empty, except for a large, thick, black stone, rectangular box with no lid. I thought to myself, “This looks like the coffin where they put the Pharoh’s dead body.” So I jumped in. The instant I lied down, I had two huge, whole body orgasms. This wasn’t out of the ordinary for me. I have orgasms all the time. It just surprised me because I wasn’t thinking about sex. I was focusing on increasing my internal energy.

I don’t think the pyramids are a crazy, mystical, energy source. I think you (and all living beings) are an energy source as powerful as the sun.

Let me ask you, “What are you focusing your energy on?”

Porn triggers amazing ejaculatory orgasms, but love triggers even more amazing (dry) orgasms.  Love sends us over the top without driving the body to ejaculate. One soft look or touch from your lover might be enough to send you into a dry orgasm. Solo practitioners need only feel self-love to initiate dry orgasm. Practice feeling tingles all over your body. Do it now – with your clothes on. When you masturbate, don’t FUCK a hottie, make LOVE to yourself! Energy from being excited about life  is a power source for dry orgasms. Small fires might be easier to control, but when the source of the fire is love, the fires don’t explode. When the sexual energy sperm tank is low, porn gets us up, but that lusty _ _ _ t makes it impossible to control ejaculation!!!

There’s an online forum devoted to energy work and to retaining sperm energy also https://www.thedaobums.com/

Let your love flow. Spend time loving yourself, and watch what you eat because you are what you eat.

Over the next few months, I won’t be answering questions because I’ll be focused on finishing a few books that are really short = to show the difference between lust and love to help men get this. You’re close to success, and I think you’re going to get this! I honestly feel that the only thing you are missing is the extra boost that comes from raising your energy up. It makes dry orgasms a lot easier. You might call it the spiritual side of male multiple orgasms. You don't have to believe a certain way. You don't have to use the same tools as me or anyone else. Just be aware of the vast energy source for triggering dry orgasms that exists inside of you.LOVE. Connect with yourself and love yourself.

All my love, Keepitup Johnson

Ps. When I have multiple orgasms without love, I don’t have satisfaction. If I don’t have love, I don’t have anything worthwhile.

Love Satisfies. I respect you for asking questions. Thanks for asking. There are lots of good men here in this online forum posting good questions and answers. Peace, light, and love.

 27 
 on: June 26, 2017, 05:55:30 PM 
Started by Vitality4845 - Last post by Vitality4845
I do a lot of different things to get as close as i can to the edge without falling over, maybe my second base is a really small base. I sometime leave my hand on and try very settle stimulus but i feel like i always fall into ejaculation. I try to hold it in but sometimes it leaks out and sometimes it retrograde and my boner dies. Im taking some time off to regain strength before i try again.

Thanks for your feedback, enjoy your family.

 

 28 
 on: June 25, 2017, 08:00:39 AM 
Started by Vitality4845 - Last post by KeepitupJohnson
Dear Vitality,
Getting back to your original post . . .  When you are extremely close to orgasm, you wrote that you stop stroking about one stroke before orgasm, and then your “penis falls back on your stomach and no dry orgasm follows” – I assume you are taking your jackhand completely off of your penis  – if so, adjust your technique -  do not let go of your penis completely. Stop stroking but continue to cradle (gently hold) your penis with your hand . . . this extra, gentle stimulation is necessary to send you over and above the threshold of orgasm, yet this extra, gentle stimulation is soft enough to keep you away  from ejaculating.
I’m on family vacation for a week . . . I will answer your other questions in a few days.
Thank you for your thoughtful questions.
Keepitup

 29 
 on: June 22, 2017, 11:47:43 PM 
Started by Vitality4845 - Last post by Vitality4845
But what occurs when you relax into an orgasm, for me it was just the momentary stiffness. Are you suppose to relax completely while letting your yourself go through that initial contraction and the spasms that follow ?  Was the point of relaxing to keep you from having the initial contraction and going straight to the spasms? All the while you are suppose to be relaxing and having contractions during your dry o, but what keeping the sperm from leaking out if you are not purposely holding the gates shut and are just relaxing ?

 30 
 on: June 22, 2017, 11:28:07 PM 
Started by Vitality4845 - Last post by Vitality4845
You make a good point about the having sperm onboard because it has been especially difficult keeping my sperm, you mentioned that the less there is the more easy it is to leak out and it always has for me. But besides this, can you explain why having more sexual energy would make dry orgasms easier. Some may think a small fire is easier to control and a big fire would just make it that much more easy to simply end up ejaculating.

I have noticed that phenomenon, when I'm close to the point of no return what happens to me when i relax is just a momentary stiffness  of the shaft then it relaxes back to my stomach, the squeezing and sucking carry me to orgasm as if i had just hooked myself to a running car, what i have trouble with is that i always end up having a retrograde ejaculation. I can hold it in and try to  orgasm again but it always keeps getting weaker and weaker. I know its retrograde because Ive noticed the sperm in my urine, how can i go about fixing this ?

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