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addieandjack
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« on: January 01, 2011, 08:27:40 PM »

So I posted this in one of my other threads but I thought I should share it here as well.  I finally had my first orgasm with no ejaculation nor refractory period.  I don't know if I can truly all it a dry orgasm, as it seemed I did in fact cum in small amounts all through the orgasm, it wasn't however with any real force and after backing off of the orgasm I had lost no sexual drive and I remained fully erect.


II went about my routine today as I usually do but I decided to go much slower than usual.  Normally I go pretty fast and only go down to a very slow speed when I want to stop myself from ejaculating, this time however I used this slow speed until I got to the point I felt like ejaculating.  I once again would go until right as I hit the PONR and, its hard to explain exactly, but I didn't exactly clamp my PC muscle shut,  it was more as if I fought my body and whatever my body naturally did, I did the opposite.  So for example my PC muscle would start to spasm and whenever it tried to clamp I relaxed it and then I clamped it hard when I felt like I was ejaculating.  Thinking back on it now, I'm sure I clamped it more then I actually relaxed it, but I didn't really focus on clamping it down as hard as I can. Previously, I would always hit the PONR and use every ounce of my strength to hold my PC muscle shut, this however didn't really seem to be the case today though.


I continued to masturbate slowly here, waiting for the PONR to hit. When it finally did, I tried something different.
Normally, when I hit the PONR I would stop ALL stimulation and focus on nothing but breathing and holding my pc muscle. Today however, thanks to a tip from FalseReality, I instead stroked ever so slightly while I was at the PONR. This literally felt as though I got to the PONR like I normally do, went backwards a step, but then instead of going backwards a few more steps like usual (thus preventing yourself from ejaculating, but not actually getting any real orgasm), I took a step back towards the PONR.  It's hard for me to describe and I'm not sure if this is how it feels for everyone but it was almost as though my body was like "orgasm, stop, orgasm, stop, orgasm, stop" in quick succession so that I ended up with what felt like a normal orgasm but seemed to be built by a large portion of mini orgasms.  I was able to hold this for what seemed like 1.5 to 2 times as long as a normal orgasm (so maybe around 10 seconds) until I slowed for a little bit and backed away from the orgasm.  I naturally tried again but wasn't able to hold it as well and ended up ejaculating. 


In the end if I had to describe the experience, it was almost as though the orgasm hits you as a wave, normally you don't really realize that it's a wave, and instead it just hits you as one solid object.  Today though I recognized the wave and "road it through" all the while preventing my bodies urge to ejaculate.  I really don't think I would have pulled this off without FalseReality's tip to SLOWLY and GENTLY stroke while at the PONR.  Everywhere else I've read says to stop all stimulation, but for me this always resulted in either no orgasm/ejaculation at all, or not being able to hold it off and ejaculating anyways. 


I hope I was able to help someone.  Let me know if you have any more questions
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« Reply #1 on: January 03, 2011, 01:18:59 AM »

The same happened for me. It held off for about 10 seconds with the what it seems like a mini orgasm, well, an orgasm without the ejaculation. But when you have it without the ejaculation, you can truly separate the orgasm from the ejaculation so you know what it feels like. I only managed to hold it off for around 10 seconds of orgasm without ejaculation but I proved a little too tired to keep it any longer than that, and I mildly ejaculated in the end. If I had been a little less tired overall I think I could have stopped ejaculation altogether. So I guess I could take this away as a 'Almost there' Cheesy
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« Reply #2 on: January 06, 2011, 01:18:11 PM »

I'm going to try that today, sounds quite interesting. Usually, I stop all stimulation after going over the ponr.
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« Reply #3 on: January 06, 2011, 03:00:57 PM »

I found that I after my first dry orgasm (minigasm?) is over I can resume one in like a couple seconds. But I find it is better to resist the urge and wait more like 10 seconds. As it will result in the juices overflowing if resumed to soon.
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« Reply #4 on: January 07, 2011, 03:46:54 PM »

It seems that when I have many orgasms in short succession, they become less and less pleasurable. Today I tried continuing slow stimulation while going over the ponr with clenching. While it was somewhat more pleasurable, the side effect was that achieving the next orgasm was harder and less pleasurable. My normal masturbation routine is edging for at least an hour, having an orgasm with controlled contractions and then some more with a relaxed pc muscle. Apparently, the voluntary and controlled contractions do not precede a refractory period in my case.

On a side note, I managed to replace my imagination as a means of "visual" stimulation with stimulating my amygdalae. Works just as well and even makes the orgasms more pleasurable.
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« Reply #5 on: January 18, 2011, 02:27:25 AM »



On a side note, I managed to replace my imagination as a means of "visual" stimulation with stimulating my amygdalae. Works just as well and even makes the orgasms more pleasurable.


What do you mean? Instead of watching porn you simply fantasize or you actually think about a specific thing/emotion/feeling?
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« Reply #6 on: January 24, 2011, 07:05:47 AM »

Are you guys still having success with this relaxing PC technique? I could make it once but only had one orgasm. I completely lost arousal after the second one. Other times I tried it I just couldn't control the muscle. It's just too hard to control the involuntary spasms...
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« Reply #7 on: January 28, 2011, 03:36:46 PM »

What do you mean? Instead of watching porn you simply fantasize or you actually think about a specific thing/emotion/feeling?
Amygdala clicking stimulates your amygdalae and activates your frontal lobes which are said to contain the brain areas for sexual pleasure among other things. So instead of fantasizing about something sexual I can just stimulate my amygdalae while masturbating, which even makes the orgasms more pleasurable.

@Fred For the PC relax technique you will need a lot of control over your PC muscle as well as a long session of edging beforehand. The longer you edge and contract your PC muscle voluntarily from time to time, the more control you will get over it gradually, and the easier it will become to relax it during orgasm.
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