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rejos
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« on: December 17, 2011, 12:10:27 PM »

Guys I'm aware of the MMO since last year but I haven't fully achieve it, in the begging some semen was coming out, only a little but it was still a failure...
Now, I'm able to hold my semen during the orgasm, but I still loose my erection after the orgasm... Why does it happen???
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« Reply #1 on: December 18, 2011, 11:37:13 AM »

Try holding a longer kegel and do what you usually do to restore arousal level (e. g. erotic fantasies).
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« Reply #2 on: December 19, 2011, 11:29:59 AM »

Man I want to thank you for the answer but ? want to make a clarification... The reason I loose my erection is because I can't do anymore what you say, I mean that I cannot create sexual thoughts in my mind anymore after the first orgams even if this orgasm is a non-ejaculatory one...
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« Reply #3 on: December 20, 2011, 05:23:51 PM »

Actually I experience the same, but I was successful a few times. Do you think it makes sense watching porn to overcome that libido drop? Another MMO-related forum people say it's all habit, and you just need to get used to the fact you can continue after orgasm, and it's gonna get easier with time.
Personally I am not sure about this, as some guys get away from PONR with kegels and others ejaculate instead. I guess the same applies to so called reverse kegels (they say it's when you force your urine out, but without using abdomen muscles, which I believe is just a very deep relaxation of the muscles). So my guess is that you might need to train your body to efficiently kegel AND reverse kegel at will (for example, to fully relax the PC I need to spend at lest 10 seconds and it's hard to keep it relaxed, while I can easily do a strong and long kegel).
Another thing I found is that when I have enough libido I can do a deep RK and the feeling has a hint of orgasm. A couple of times I aroused myself with a series of small kegels and fantasies, and when I finally did a RK I had a prolonged orgasm without any ejaculation. Give it a try and let me know.
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« Reply #4 on: January 09, 2012, 04:48:17 AM »

Man finally i tried it but it was another failure... I have to admit that watching porn gave me a little boost to my libido but nothing more, it's impossible for me to continue if I don't rest at least for 5 minutes after the first orgasm and  of course my penis becomes flacid... What else can I do?? Please help me...
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« Reply #5 on: January 09, 2012, 12:07:59 PM »

Remember, I am not a pro, so I can only recommend something I read on another forum. The idea is to make the timing right, and to do that you need to have the PC relaxed during stimulation until you feel you absolutely cannot keep it from contracting and only then start the kegel that is long and hard enough.
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« Reply #6 on: January 12, 2012, 07:09:10 AM »

Thanks a lot man, I believe that my mistake is about the timing, that's why i have to work on it harder... I hope that you'll be able to help me again if i need it...
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« Reply #7 on: January 16, 2013, 10:59:19 PM »

You probably had a retrograde ejaculation. You squeezed your PC muscles hard enough to suck your sperm right into your bladder. No health danger so don't worry. The telltale signs of a retrograde ejaculation are
1. losing your erection (you ejaculated)
2. When you pee, you'll notice the sperm cums out first. Your piss will make more bubbles in the toilet bowl.
3. For positive identification purposes: piss into a glass and then wait half an hour; notice the cloud of semen.

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« Reply #8 on: January 17, 2013, 12:02:01 AM »

You might have had a retrograde ejaculation. You squeezed your PC muscles so hard that you sucked the sperm into your bladder.

How can you tell if you had a retrograde ejaculation?

Piss in a glass and wait for an hour. If there's a white cloud floating in the middle of your pee, you can be sure you had one.

With retrograde ejaculations, you lose your hard on cause you ejaculated. With dry orgams (male multiple orgasms) this doesn't happen (when you get it right).

You can google retrograde ejaculations if you want more info.
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« Reply #9 on: February 07, 2013, 06:11:58 PM »

I know this is an old message but my response is for the record. I would not say one drop is a complete failure  if you can keep going and have another orgasm. I do not think it is such an absolute definition. Which is worse,
lose a couple of drops of semen but make love for another hour or two or keep every drop but lose your erection? I say the latter.
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