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« on: September 24, 2013, 07:37:12 AM »

I recently begun practicing mulit-orgasmic techniques outlined in the book "The Multi-Orgasmic Man" by Chia and Abrams. I am not in a sexual relationship, but am now able to masterbate for hours on end. Obviously, it feels amazing, but it is a double-edged sword; I am worried that my newly discovered sexual potential may turn me into a sex addict. I am working on my undergrad right now and will admit that I have missed classes on account that once I start masterbating I can't stop myself. Lately when this happens I let myself ejaculate to bring myself back down, but I want to learnhow to control myself without relying on ejaculation as it expends energy. Does anyone have any advice on how to experience the pleasure of multi-orgasms without it turning into an all-day sexual bender?
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« Reply #1 on: September 24, 2013, 01:03:26 PM »

In masturbating, you find great pleasure in connecting with yourself. Find this great connection everywhere and in everything you do. You will feel the same great pleasure.

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« Reply #2 on: September 25, 2013, 09:43:19 AM »

hey there sdx,

I can see your concern. You don't want masturbation to interfere with your college life. I actually remember back in college that I went a whole month without masturbating. It helped me get through some tough exams because I was energized and focused. But, I was a nervous reck cuz I was horny as hell and when exams were over, I had to release. I've also read the book and if I knew then what I know now, I know I would have done much better cuz I have more confidence in myself to handle stresses in life today.

Are you practicing to draw your energy up your spine? This is a great technique that I only recently started to learn myself. You can't rush this technique, it takes time. You need to breathe deeply and draw (use your mind to do this) the energy up while you are inhaling from you belly and squeeze your pc muscles. Strengthen your pc muscle everyday cuz this will help you to avoid ejaculating when you get close to the edge. Like Keepitup Johnson said, that once you learned to circulate your energy you can do it anywhere, even in class! and it will feel good. With enough practice you can even have full body orgasms anywhere. I've already experienced this and they are fantastic. They last for such a long time and I'm not even hard. Remember, don't just concentrate on you dick, like the book says you have to learn to massage other places. Some guys have a hard time with this because they have been given the impression that this is gay. It's not. Learn to love yourself as a whole. Touch your balls and massage your perineum without rubbing your dick. It seems you have enough sexual energy to draw up your spine to your head without jerking already. But, dude once you are close to the edge, learn to relax and try not to fantasize or use porn! That's how I discovered whole body orgasms. Limit yourself to an hour per day to practice, if possible. Maybe before you go to bed. That's what I do. The key is to breathe deeply and relax and you shouldn't feel so horny at the end of the session. If you still do because you haven't drawn your energy away from you dick, then release until you mastered the technique.

Let us know your progess and don't miss anymore classes!

Mark
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« Reply #3 on: September 26, 2013, 06:57:21 PM »

Hey, thank you both for your responses.

@MarkyMark20
I have recently begun drawing energy up my spine as I approach orgasm; for a while I "thought" I was doing this, but it turns out that I had yet to really get the trick of it. It is certainly one of those things that you have to discover almost by accident but once you do it makes total sense. Almost like how when you first start puberty, you "think" you know what an orgasm is, until you actually have one. I'm getting much better at noticing the energy in my daily life, and I really like your idea about stopping the fantasies when you get close and just "being" with your body and its sensations, I'll make sure to start doing that. I have practicing PC exercises for a few months now and I think that a strong PC is the reason I've been able last so long, but now I just need to master the other half of it, which is the energy circulation like you said.

Believe me, I'll keep working on it; it's too bad that not every skill can feel this good while you are learning it! Again, thanks for the replies.
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