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Author Topic: PC Squeeze Timing - before or after the emission phase?  (Read 8512 times)
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« on: October 01, 2013, 08:04:43 AM »

There seems to be contradictory information surrounding the timing of the PC squeeze.  Pretty much every book I've read on MMO (which is now quite a few) gives the same information about ejactulation being in 2 phases - the emission phase (semen moving out of the testicles) and the expulsion phase (semen coming out of the penis).  But different books say different things about when to time the PC squeeze - some say to squeeze just before the emission phase, and some say to squeeze in between the emission phase and the expulsion phase.

Can any PC squeeze experts tell me which is the correct one?
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« Reply #1 on: October 01, 2013, 04:48:14 PM »

"some [books] say to squeeze just before the emission phase, and some say to squeeze in between the emission phase and the expulsion phase."


Interesting question, interestingly, both are correct. Everyone says things differently, which is why things sound confusing. It's helpful to listen to more than just one person, including me. You never know who is going to say it just right for you to get that ahah moment! How can both be correct?

Everyone agrees that the orgasm (the good feeling pulsating contractions) come first, immediately followed by the emission stage. That's why our orgasmic contractions begin to pump out fluid after the second or third contraction. In a dry orgasm, you skip the emission phase, so the orgasmic contractions pump nothing out.

Timeline:  . . . . . expulsion phase(orgasmic contractions)  . . . . .  emission phase
 
I squeeze from the moment I get excited. I continue squeezing through the whole timeline. Can you see how both answers can be correct?

Timeline: . . .{squeeze}. . . . expulsion phase(contractions begin). . .{still squeezing} . emission phase . (I stop squeezing)


There are many ways to have a dry orgasm. I can have dry orgasms by slowly edging close to orgasm and then relaxing. In other words, I can have dry orgasms without ever squeezing my PC muscles at all. For me, dry orgasms only come from skipping the emission stage (preventing the emission from ever happening). PC muscles can help. I use mine all the time.

I feel it's a bit more accurate to call it the "PC suck" than to call it the "PC squeeze" because it's more like sucking in urine to prevent piss from ever flowing than like squeezing off the flow of urine once it starts. Sucking in with your PC muscles helps to prevent the emission stage, but you can't hold back the flow of Niagra Falls by sucking in with your PC muscles. It can't be done. Sucking in harder is not the answer. But did you know that engineers once dried up Niagara Falls? (Google that shit) Figure out what is going on inside your body. Figure out what triggers your body to release sperm (for me, it's imagining fucking a hot, new woman). Figure out how to approach orgasm with less pressure. With increased body awareness, a light (medium hard) PC suck holds the sperm in place which prevents the emissions phase from ever happening!

Figure out how to approach orgasm with less pressure.
What is the emission phase good for?
Getting young women pregnant.

Unless you want to get her pregnant, I suggest sex without porn or lustful images. Do it! Unlike lust, loving sexual energy is soothing and has a chance of remaining inside your body. Porn generates too much sexual pressure, which pressurizes its release. Lust is like a poison that must get drained. Loving sexual energy can remain inside your body in a state of relaxed peace. Guys, this could be the key you've been looking for.

Do your fantasies revolve around helping her get satisfied? Does your sexuality care about her life?  Or are you having ME SEX (porn style) - just caring about yourself and getting off? Feel the difference, man. I recommend masturbating and making love with feelings, energy, thoughts, and images of connecting to someone (even if she's only imaginary) instead of ME SEX. Perhaps then you won't trigger your emission!

Here's one way I get the timing right for a non-ejaculatory orgasm: I reach orgasmic inevitability while maintaining my PC suck. I suck in hard enough to hold everything in. Right up into orgasm, I am sucking in gently with the PC muscles at the tip of my penis and the PC muscles in the base of my penis. Try every way you can think of to suck in. I prefer to imagine sucking in everywhere. When I am not lusting or moving too fast, I feel my sperm is secure inside. I feel my orgasm begin while I am maintaining the spermal security of PC suction. I feel my PC suction holding back my sperm like a wall holding back water.

How long do I hold the PC suck after the big O begins? About a second or two.
How can I release my PC's without releasing sperm?

There's more than one explanation for how to do it because we all approach things slightly differently. From my experience, I will say that you can't have an awesome, dry orgasm if you're still sucking in once your big O begins to roll.  If I were to hold my PC suck too long or too hard, I would lose that loving feeling (no orgasm). I always relax and let go as soon as possible to have a great dry orgasm! As soon as I know I won't blow, I release everything. I release my PC suck when I know I won't leak! I relax my PC muscles completely. I orgasm without losing a drop!

I don't bother with teaching breathing techniques, but I will say that i breathe the whole time I have sex -from start to finish - breathing keeps us relaxed - holding breath tightens us up - I'm relaxed the whole time I have sex - and this definitely helps me to have nonejaculatory (dry) orgasms. I suggest avoiding lust and fast movement. Most men who have mastered dry orgasms can't have dry orgasms while lusting or pounding their meat furiously. Keep that in mind. Keep it love, and keep it slow.

Peace and love, keepitup johnson

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« Reply #2 on: October 02, 2013, 04:36:11 PM »

Thanks Keepitup, great reply.

I had often wondered whether I just wasn't doing the PC squeeze (suck) long or hard enough, and that maybe I needed to clamp down hard until every last contraction of the orgasm had finished, but clearly that's not the case.

Back to experimenting...
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« Reply #3 on: October 03, 2013, 01:30:35 AM »

Yes! You are correct! And you're getting closer and closer! Experiment with visualization. As you slowly reach orgasm with a slight PC suck, visualize a barrier that holds back sperm. Your body will get the picture. Be fearless and Relax into orgasm.
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