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« on: December 28, 2014, 04:40:45 PM »

Not so long ago I encountered a website dedicated to the act of tantric sex. (http://thenewtantra.com/) (http://21daychallenge.com/) What really sparked my curiosity was the 21 day challenge, a challenge of abstaining from the temporary ecstasy in the form of ejaculation. I was taken aback by the benefits this website claimed in regards to finishing this challenge. The main one being the ability of developing multiple orgasmic capabilities. I have tried three times and failed three times. I have started this post in order to provide, with other new habits the austere measures to discipline my self to survive 21 days without cumming. However, every day I will continue to self pleasure myself until the point where I feel the need to ejaculate, each sessions will be curtailed at that instant.

I will keep you guys updated, every 3 days I will share my experience 

Take care and wish me luck  Grin
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« Reply #1 on: December 30, 2014, 11:16:57 AM »

Wishing you luck and many many dry orgasms........hope you can detail your journey in getting there.
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« Reply #2 on: January 01, 2015, 06:04:03 PM »

I've managed to keep ejaculations down to over a month. The last time I held out for several months. I did feel the energy build up, but you have to be careful with the building up of sexual energy if you don't channel it properly.

When I did cum for the first time, I did it through my prostate and was the most amazing orgasm I ever felt. I used an aneros. But, it also ejaculated semen from the prostate. I wasn't even hard. The sexual energy didn't come way down until 2 months later when I was massaging my perineum and felt that nice feeling of an orgasm starting and I did not do well with pulling the energy from my dick. It was a very good session though and brought me back down. I felt that I really needed that release. You can go a bit crazy by reaching the edge and stopping without circulating the energy.

Also, I have to lay off of the porn, I find that it does not help with MMO at all. But after a few weeks, I get tempted and give in.
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« Reply #3 on: January 02, 2015, 03:53:28 PM »

Day 4  Smiley

What I have noticed so far:
- I feel a bit more irritated than usual and I behave in a more brusque like manner, I guess this is due to the frustration.
- Stopping myself from ejaculation is not a facile task, it gets more difficult the more I pleasure myself
- I was able to circulate some sexual energy around my microcosmic orbit, however it was nowhere near an orgasm

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« Reply #4 on: January 03, 2015, 02:34:09 PM »

More luck and less frustration wished to you bro.  Keep us posted as we all try to enter this world of MMOs.
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« Reply #5 on: January 05, 2015, 05:24:44 AM »

Day 6   Huh

- During the night of day 5 I experiences something bizarre. I was not able to fall asleep, due to the warm sensation and pressure that I felt in my penis. Before going to sleep I watched a short porno, which later proved to be a mistake. I can't exculpate myself as it was obviously wrong of me to see a porno, before going to sleep as it made me horny and gave me this weird sensitization. Fortunately I was able to restrain myself from fapping and ejacualting.
- On day 6 I didn't feel the need to masterbate and I was able to last longer before edging. 
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« Reply #6 on: January 05, 2015, 02:36:00 PM »

It does get better over time to not cum. You would be surprised. I was actually working a hard-on on Saturday which I didn't feel like cumming and without jerking it, it remained hard for a very long time on its own and I wasn't that horny. You'll manage to make your body accustomed to ejaculating when you want to and go for hours with an erection.

Porn will do that to you. I know how it feels after you've watched it. It screws up your energy and makes it hot and lustful, making it difficult to circulate the energy. It will set you back in your progress until you can overcome the desire.

Good for you that you didn't give in and let it pass.
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« Reply #7 on: January 06, 2015, 07:05:10 AM »

Question?

Whenever I mastebathe for an extensive period of time (without finishing), I notice some semen in my urine. Is this normal? Can I somehow prevent it? Should I restart? Will it go away?
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« Reply #8 on: January 06, 2015, 09:00:19 AM »

You must have reached very close to the PONR (or passed it) and tried to stop the ejaculation by clamping down on your pc muscles. You might have had a retrograde ejaculation where the sperm went to your bladder and when you urinated you pissed the sperm out.

When you masturbate you must be doing it with quite amount of vigor. You have to take it easy when getting close and try to suck the energy out of your dick so the energy doesn't blast out that way. 
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« Reply #9 on: January 07, 2015, 11:09:24 AM »

Unfortunately I have ejaculate today so I guess I have to start again. I did it because of the unease pressure that I felt building up in my perineum, that I felt when when I pissed or masterbated. I was scared of the idea of having somehow sperm stuck in the wrong tubing in my body, as I came close to orgasming many times before. Anyhow this ejcaulation is the harbinger of the end of me posting blog entries on mmo, as I feel I know all the information I need.
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« Reply #10 on: February 17, 2015, 10:46:28 AM »

Hey guys...

Good luck with your challenge and practice.  Just wanted to share some stuff.

Irritability and frustration stems from your sexual energy being locked in the lower chakra and your body wants to release it.  If it can't circulate, it'll demand release through ejaculation.  Sometimes even abdominal breathing and relaxed breathing can help circulate and release the tension, maybe give that a go for 5 mins and see if it helps.

I'll confirm that what you're encountering with semen in your urine is a retrograde ejaculation and as MarkyMark20 says you're not stopping the ejaculation early enough.  Some say it's harmless while others say that it's not good for your bladder to have the semen pushed back like that.  Either way, it's a result of something you don't want to happen anyway - more practice will help with knowing when to stop stimulation.  But foamy urine is not the same as semen in your urine, so there is a difference there.

Lastly, porn is only bad if you get lost in a mental imagery and lose connection with your body.  Then fantasy controls your mind which essentially controls your body.  This is why you hear stories or suggestions like think of something else while you're having sex, because the mind attempts to desensitize the penis by controlling it's imagination.  But that's not ideal either because it still takes you away from the moment.   But porn can be used as an experiment to train the mind.  While you watch the clip, observe your mind as you observe the porn.  You'll notice thoughts like "wow, that's sexy", "damn, she's hot", "she's really turned on", and even more subtle thoughts, but as you observe your thoughts which are happening every time you watch porn whether you're aware of it or not, the same arousal factor which usually keeps growing to the PONR is not there or not as strong as usual.  Then it's just a matter of training your mind and regaining connection with your body.

I've been practicing for about 10 years now and have only spread my seed about 30 or so times as I don't have a partner and no longer feel the need to lose my vital energy through ejaculation.  I'm not a pro by any means and have not had those 3+ mins of orgasmic energy or full body energy but I'm enjoying the journey and not rushing to the destination.

Best of luck...
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« Reply #11 on: February 17, 2015, 07:19:44 PM »

I've been practicing for about 10 years now and have only spread my seed about 30 or so times as I don't have a partner and no longer feel the need to lose my vital energy through ejaculation.
Have you been feeling better overall, do you have more energy, etc.?
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« Reply #12 on: February 18, 2015, 08:17:50 AM »

I've been practicing for about 10 years now and have only spread my seed about 30 or so times as I don't have a partner and no longer feel the need to lose my vital energy through ejaculation.
Have you been feeling better overall, do you have more energy, etc.?

Yep, I definitely feel better overall.  Not to be too esoteric or spiritual, but as you refine your energy and become accustomed to a higher vibration and en'lighten' your energy, you get in touch with yourself, sometimes for the first time.  This doesn't mean that I now do amazing stuff for 18 hours and only need 3 hours of sleep, etc, etc...   it just means that I'm now aware of my natural energy levels and live my life with that balance and understanding. 
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« Reply #13 on: March 07, 2015, 12:42:45 PM »

Day 6   Huh

- During the night of day 5 I experiences something bizarre. I was not able to fall asleep, due to the warm sensation and pressure that I felt in my penis. Before going to sleep I watched a short porno, which later proved to be a mistake. I can't exculpate myself as it was obviously wrong of me to see a porno, before going to sleep as it made me horny and gave me this weird sensitization. Fortunately I was able to restrain myself from fapping and ejacualting.
- On day 6 I didn't feel the need to masterbate and I was able to last longer before edging. 

Porn is always a mistake. Basically, it is a lie.
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« Reply #14 on: December 27, 2016, 09:35:53 AM »

I looked at the site the OP linked; essentially, it's not just a no-ejaculation program, it's a no orgasm program.  Booooo!

That being said, I like the idea of doing an extended period of no ejaculation.  I made it to 31 days last year.  Does anyone else have any wisdom as to whether there is a point of diminishing returns.  That is to say, does it make a difference if you ejaculate once every 7-8 days as opposed to every 14-15 days, etc.?
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